The Money Saving Bride: The Budget So Far

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Photo by Robin Lear

If you've been checking back to this blog, you'll notice that I've had a sort of radio silence here for a while. And that's because, well, let's face it, as a nursing student who also was working part time and playing a lead role in a large Easter production (I played the pregnant wife of the youth group worship leader), time was a little tight and most of whatever I had to spare went to studying. So blogging took a back seat and kinda got forgotten.

But since then, my schedule has cleared significantly. I quit my job just before Easter to give myself some breathing room. And now, obviously, the Easter production is over so I'm not spending 4 days a week at the church either. So here were are (hopefully) back to regular, consistent blogging.

I thought I would take this post to give you an idea of how much we've already spent on our wedding and how much we've saved given the averages of what people normally spend on these things. Given some unforseen circumstances, I have a feeling we're going to spend a little more than we wanted on our wedding, but hopefully not too terribly much. So, here goes.

Venue
Average spent in 2010 (ceremony only): $1,393
Average spent in 2010 (reception only): $12,124
Venue for our wedding (ceremony and reception): $450
Amount saved: $13,067

Originally we were going to get married at my church, costing about $600 including the officiant's fee and a day of wedding coordinator. However, because we got engaged in December and wanted to be married in June, the dates had already all been filled. So we had to start looking elsewhere and found (kind of) a farm with a concert hall that we could use for both ceremony and reception with dates available in June. So we ended spending less than we had intended for the ceremony/reception venue.

Wedding Dress
Average spent in 2010: $1,099
Spent for our wedding: $257.94 (including shipping)
Amount saved: $841. 06

I don't even know if this can count into our budget because I've actually had the dress for a while. I found it on a discount dress site about a year ago and, with no intention of getting married any time soon, went ahead and bought because it was the dress I really wanted for my wedding.

Reception DJ:
Average spent in 2010: $900
Spent for our wedding (estimate): $375
Amount saved: $525

My children's pastor actually does DJ-ing (is that even how you spell it?) to help raise money for his children's ministry. We haven't yet secured him for the wedding, but I'm hoping I can, since it would mean a lot to me if he was our DJ.

Invitations:
Average spent in 2010: $351
Spent for our wedding: $349. 50
Amount saved: $1.50

I could not find any invitations that I liked to fit my theme (Tangled, whimsical, lanterns) and so I had asked my sister if I gave her a general idea of what I wanted if she could design them for me and then we would just have them mass printed. But then I found Wedding Paper Divas and they had a perfect design that matched both theme and color scheme. So we ended up spending a little more here than intended, but it was well worth it.

Catering:
Average spent in 2010 (cost per head) $61
Spent for our wedding (cost per head) $7
Amount saved (per head): $54

I'm using the same caterer my mom used when she remarried about five years ago (or something. I never remember the right number). The caterer has also been a friend of the family for years. That being said, to save money on catering, we skillfully plotted this one out. Our ceremony time is 2:30pm, just after lunch but far enough away from dinner so the reception time will be roughly around 3:30. This way we can just serve finger foods instead a full meal and drastically reduce the cost per head.

So in all we've saved $14,448.56 so far and, given that the average wedding costs around $26,000, I'd say we're on a roll. See you next week my lovelies!

Note: All statistics taken from TheKnot.com. Survey results can be found here.